Is James W. Bethany b. 1824, who married Mary A. b. 1825, and had daughter Calpurnia "Callie" Bethany 1866-1902, who m. Jacob Cobb McDade 1865-1902 the same as James W. Bethany who m. Adeline Wood and had Lucinda A. Bethany b. 1854, who m. JUdge John P. Bell b. 1844?