Patience Billingham married Thomas Harvourtt in December Quarter 1882 Dudley 6c-102 http://freebmd.rootsweb.com/http://freebmd.rootsweb.com/
You can order the marriage cert on line from the General Register Office: Safe and easy to do. I do it all the time from the US. Costs about $15 and takes about 2 weeks. http://www.gro.gov.uk/gro/content/http://www.gro.gov.uk/gro/content/
The marriage cert will give the names of the fathers of both the bride and groom.
I think this is Patience family in 1861. She is the only Patience Billingham that I can find at that time.
Staffordshire, Sedgley Coseley Terrace Thomas Billingham Head 49 Miner Staffordshire, Coseley Jane Billingham Wife 44 Staffs, Tipton Thomas Billingham Son 16 Miner Staffs, Tipton Edith Billingham Dau 15 Staffs, Tipton Luke Billingham Son 12 Miner Worcestershire, Oldbury Sampson Billingham Son 10 Miner Worcs, Oldbury Naomi Billingham Dau 8 Worcs, Oldbury Pathena? Billingham Dau 6 Worcs, Oldbury Patience Billingham Dau 1 Staffs, Coseley RG9/2050 Folio 26 Page 2