I believe your wife and I may be distantly related. My father was Harold Blakley of Mossyrock, whose father was James. Harold married Betty Jean Thompson of Portland c.1958. They had a daughter and three sons over the years. They all live here in WA State. Harold then divorced Betty in '75, and remarried in '78 and had another daughter, also in WA State. then, c.1980, Harold divorced again, moved to Ketchikan Alaska, married Nina (maiden & date unknown), and fathered six more children.
Of Harold's Brothers & Sisters, I only know of a Mark & Lauren.
We are also related to the Flannigan line also of the Morton/Mossyrock/Onalaska region.