Janie, What I have info on is Charles M. Bope born ca 1853 Ohio and died 24 Dec 1912 is buried at Fairview cemetery in Council Bluffs, IA.He was married 17 Jul 1879 in Nelson, Nuckolls County, NE to Clara M. Newton.Her father was John J. Newton and her mother was Eliza Wild.
The location of the grave in Fairview Cemetery is Section H, Lot 22, Space Six.
Charles appears on the 1895 census for Kane Twp, Pottawattamie County, Iowa.Page 25, Family 739, Line 19 as Chas M. Bope age 40, that he was a widow, was in the Civil War, Company K, 57 Regiment Ohio.
The family above his is the family of his wife's oldest sister Emma Newton who is married to Morris Wesley Clark
He also had to children from this marriage.I hope this helps. JackieMy e-mail address will be changing any minute.