Hey Terry, I'm the daughter of "Joe" whose real name is Ronald. He just used his dads (our grandfather) name. I've been trying to find our other Aunts for the longest time....but here's what I know about the family.
Joseph Brecheen married (I don't know Grandmas maiden name so we'll just say) Grandma Brecheen.
They had three sons- Ronald, Terry and Uncle Spike (I don't know his real name either) and two daughters- Lori and Missy (Melissa?) Ronald had one child (not two) named Kaya (that's me) I don't know how many Terry had aside from you...and the last time I knew Spike only had Sasha. Lori had Michael, who is our age, then later had Jimmy and then Ryan. Missy had like, six kids.... their names escape me at the moment.....So, Grandpa and Grandma divorced... Grandma Brecheen re-marries to Doug Summerlin (or Sommerlin) And Grandpa remarries to a woman in Tennesee..... That's as much as I know..... Please feel free to contact me. I'd like to hear from you.-Kaya