Hi, I am Clifton Cahoons mother in law. I don't know if he got back to you on any dates but his father Bernard"Barney" F Cahoon was born Apr 8,1939. I'm not sure if this is CT or Oklahoma. But I think it is the first one. He died and is buried in Oklahoma. He died June 19,1987. Clifton was young when both his mother and father died. So he doesn't have much to go on. If I remember right his mothers maiden name was Springer. I hope that this helps.