Frances, thank you for the response. I hope you received your email. Just for clarification I will post here in case anyone else wants to share/needs info. In a sense I guess I am cousins to the kids of Cade and Mary. Mary's dad is Barachias Webster Farnham and emily susan evans. They were married in Lawrence co. ms in 1845. Barachias is my gg-grandpa and thus, Mary and her husband, Cade and Mary's brother Thad and John Daniel were half siblings to my g-grandpa. I am searching hoping someone has a record of Mary's birth or death and who it lists as her parents and their dob and place because we don't know the actual date of Barachias' birth, death, or place of birth. Thank you for your response.