I thought the family of Cade Calcote and Mary Farnham should part of their history. Your grandparents aren't named John and Mary. Mary Farnham was the daughter of Barachius Webster Farnham and Emily Susan/Susannah Evans who married in lawrence co. ms. 1845. Her brotheris John Daniel and her other brother is Thad. Webster is from the Farnham side and subsequently from the Eaton and Farnham and Webster families of New England. You have many relatives if you would like to contact us-ms>ok for starters. If you want to look itup online the marriage is listed under barrichies which is the wrong spelling, so you might try Emily evans. John Daniel married a Carroll, so there are more of us. If any are interested in contributing or more information please contact me. If any of you have pics of Mary please respond. I don't know that our family does since her father remarried and eventually ended up in others hands. Also, do you know any Loflins of ms? You may be step or half related. Mary's dad remarried Cora Jane Hathorn Loflin-my grandmother and she had children and they had children. I have sort of become the record keeper as I work off the computer and many are writing me from my family, they want info, they want to give info. they are very interested. So even if you don't give a darn hoot but know something, would you email me? thank you!