I did in fact receive your email Frances. Thank you for returning it. I am sorry it wasn't much help to me and that I don't want to purchase your book. Thanks for the offer though. again. I will seek out info on Mary Farnham Calcote myself - in a letter written by my grandfather in 1979 (his dad was Mary's half brother) he writes of Mary and her brother Thad.... "Uncle Thad worked across the river in La. I know he had to cross the Ms. river every day to work.... he has a sister also... her name is Mary Calcote.".... This supports our family information that mary had two brothers named Thad and John Daniel. Her parents were Emily Susannah Evans and Barachias Webster Farnham.