Ida Hayden is my great-grandmother. My grandfather, Thomas Carroll, is her youngest son with Henry. Tom died in 1969 but his wife Mildred is still living in Lancaster. Where do you fit in the family?
I've not been able to find Ida's grave, either. I've been through most of the Lancaster cemetaries and the one in Beetown, too, with no luck. Which cemetary is she "supposedly" in?
I'm going to pass your message along to my uncle, who is the real genealogist in the family. He has the entire Hayden line back to the 1100s in England! He has a great Web site that lists TONS of info. Check it out at http://www.familytreemaker.com/users/c/a/r/Lawrence-Carroll/http://www.familytreemaker.com/users/c/a/r/Lawrence-Carroll/
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