Note,Sidney Brandon's brother John Brandon died on Battlefield during the war. Sidney and her husband James Withrow separated because of his death. SupposedlyJames Withrow and John Brandon fought on different sides. John Brandon was wounded, laying on the field when his brother-in-law passed him by. John begged him to help him but James said,"Get your help from your own side". Sidney left her husband as soon as she was told that James did not help her brother, even though they were fighting on Opposite sides. She lived many years after that. James had lived with the Woman who became his second wife all this time and married her as soon as Sidney died. ( Per my Withrow family history) J.E.