Connie, I know that this is an older message and you probibly have the whole family figured out by now but, it sounds like you and I are related but I'm not sure how yet.
My line goes like this:
Thomas Nathaniel Jonathan Nathaniel Nathaniel Comfort Lucy(this is where I branch off) m. to Seth Kendall. Lucy and Seth's daughter Polly Kendall m. Arnold Burt. Polly and Arnold's son Franklin was my gggrandfather. He married Josephine Brown. Franklin and Josephine's 4th child was Orville deForest Burt my ggrandfather. Orville m. Martha Maude Symons. Orville and Martha's daughter was Minnie Francis Burt (my grandmother. Minnie m. June Julius(aka J.J.) Hayden. Minnie and June's son Lawrence Earl Hayden is my father.
Without knowing your line its hard to determine our relationship. Can you e-mail me with your family line?