We need to ask for a Prayer Chain for you so you can find your Eleanor/Elender Choate. LOL
Was working on the family of Herod Choate who was the brother of Eleanor Choate who married Nicholas Kelley.
I found this date, which is most likely a Marriage Bann, of July 22, 1813 in Baltimore County, Maryland for Eleanor and Nicholas.
Herod was in Simpson County, Kentucky with his family in 1820 but later moved back to Baltimore County, Maryland.He named his youngest child Eleanor...she was b. abt, 1844 in Baltimore County, Maryland.
In 1820, the Kelley's found in Simpson County, Kentucky were John Sr & John Jr, Joseph and Marion.These Kelley's and Herod Choate most likely "knew" one another in 1820.