Carolyn, from "The Durham Family of Tyler Co.,TX & Other Descendants of Matthew Durham(c1730-1795) of Orange Co.,NC", by Kenneth L. Durham (whew)...it gives this data. "Children of Thomas Harvey Cliett(1798-1868) 1. Elizabeth E. Cliett, b April 1821 GA, probably in Warren Co., she died Dec 22 1914 at age 93 and is buried in Mr. Hickory Primitive Baptist Church Cem. in Chambers Co.,AL; Married 1st ? Mr Belcher; m2 Abner Haralson on April 6 1837 in Floyd Co.,GA. He was born Feb 10 1809 GA, prob. the s/o Hiram Haralson; he died Jan 21 1886 or 1887. Children: 6sons & 6dts." There is further data on the children...The 12th child mentioned is "William F. Haralson, b ca 1864 in AL married Mattie KEY Mar 8 1885 in Chambers Co.,AL" The 2ed child is "John B. Haralson, b c 1842 in AL; m1Saphronia C. Furlow Nov 5 1863 in Chambers Co.,AL; m2 M.E.CHRISTLER Jan 6 1884 Chambers Co.,AL. (5+children)" Interestingly, Abner and Elizabeth CLIETT HARALSON named their 3rd child & 2ed son, Hiram Abner Haralson.Do you think that a Hiram Haralson "could have been" the father of your Abner? Does any of this help??