Marge,The R and S Clute are Ryer Schermerhorn Clute and his wife Sarah Jane Buckaloo. They lost the three children to mushroom poisoning. They had 13 in all, but I can only find 11 so far. They kept moving and ended up in Edgewood, Iowa.
Douwe I. Clute seems to be a son of Gillis Clute and Maria Cornu..The only bothersome thing is that he is believed to have been born28 Feb 1773, which does not work out well for the 100 years unless there was a error on the stone and it was a 7 instead of a 6.The only wife that I have for Douwe is Maria Schermerhorn, but she died in 1851, so he must have remarried after her death. Douwe I, Jr. was married first to Sarah Sayles and then remarried to a Mary Eveland ( born Pa.). They had Henry D. 1850,Mary 1860 and Edward 1863. They lived mostly in Wyoming County,NY