This is such bad news. Years ago Larry and I had a discussion in which we decided that we were almost certainly related because of Sarah Cochran then decided that were were surely related because of the Schlemps! "What are your other names," he asked. In the South, that's a sure-fire way of getting a connection, if not a kinship. What a careful, thoughtful scholar he was, and the other two cousins also, whom I know only by their work.