Looking for Mary Colegrove who m. Samuel Sparks in Killingly, CT. Left town 1814 after Mr. Sparks' father died. They went to NY and passed the inn of Ira Irons and Samuel's sister, Betsey, and then the Colegroves lost touch. I think it may have been in Tioga Co , NY.
Samuel appears later in Chautauqua Co, NY , with second wife and some of the children.
Family lore has a tomahawk in her back somewhere in the wilds of NY. As some of the children were with her during the attack, I wonder how many of them may have been lost, as well.