I research the Irish Family History Foundation's database. It contains 12,800,000 surviving rcds for abt 70% of Irish counties. Rcds are increasingly sparse B4 1840, rare B4 1800. Cos. Donegal and Derry were recently added to the database.
Note 1 - Without a KNOWN county, the chance of an ancestor's rcds NOT being in this database is AT LEAST 30%.
Note 2 - Only 1/2 of Co. Cork's rcds are in this database.
Note 3 - The RC church kept control over most parish rcds from Tipperary (north). These are ONLY available thru the Tipperary Family History Research center at a substantial fee (regardless of outcome).
For John Cuffe B 1864 +/- 2 yrs, Co. Westmeath, with a father forenamed Martin, I found 1 rcd in 1864. Your info seems good. This has a high likelihood of being for this ancestor.
For Mart(in) Cuffe M 1852 +/- 4 yrs, somewhere in Ireland, I found 2 rcds: 1852 Mayo, and 1854 Roscommon.
For Marg(aret) Scally M ditto, I found 8 rcds, none of which match those for Martin. This casts doubt on Martin's rcd.
Google the Foundation's name to lead you to this database. Register, opt to be notified as rcds are added and browse. Pls post your search results to my genforum msg.