Alistair - I was thrilled to see your message about our family! We are definitely cousins. My paternal grandmother, Agnes Miller was Effie's sister. Your mom must have been Peggy Allister, married to Bob. I have pictures of all of them. Our grandmother's mom was Mary Moffatt who married John Miller. I knew Effie's brother Jim because he moved to the USA. Mary Moffat had a sister, Elspeth, who died at the age of 10. She probably named her daughter (your grandmother) after her. I am thinking Effie's sister, Mary, was the one who married John Dalziel. Thank you for taking the time to email and if you want more info about this side of your family, please contact me. My email is email@example.com.