I am wondering if Chas. Wesley's parents are James deForest and wife Elizabeth? In the 1870 US Census for Brooklyn, Williamsburgh NY, I find James age 35, a tailor, and Eliz. age 35 and their children: Mary, 16; CHARLES 15; Frank 10; Wm 5. Sheet 160, Page 39, Line 37. I know you've been looking a long time - good luck.