I am not related - this is part of a transcription project. There are still DIFFLEYs in Rhode Island.
St. Ann (Catholic) Cemetery, Cranston, Rhode Island Section C
DIFFLEY (# 107) John J. Diffley, 1869 - 1935 Rosena Gilmore, his wife, 1873 - 1947 (back) Thomas P., 1900 - 1902 John J., Jr., 1895 - 1920 Charles G., 1898 - 1928 Edward J., 1894 - 1929 PVT Co. D, 303rd Engrs. 78 Div., A. E. F.
(smaller stone, nearby) In Memory of Thomas P., son of John J. & Rosena Diffley died July 21, 1902, aged 1y, 6 m, & 21 days Another little one has gone to dwell with Him who gave another darling Babe