Hello Micheal, from what I have read we would be Third cousins. My Grandfather is James Edward Dismuke, my Father would then be (Buddy) Gary Edward Dismuke and I am Shawn Edward Dismuke. Dad and I were born and raised in Mcalester Oklahoma and I knew Aunt Stella and Uncles (Buck) Eugene Dismuke and only a little of your Grandpa Jim(Red)Dismuke. Red's family is now in St.Louis area. I would be more than happy to aid or to learn more of our family and contact you.