Dear Kerry, My last ancestor born in NJ was John Ditmars who was born in 1805. He was a son of George and Charity Ditmars. About 1820 George moved his family to NY. Around 1848, they arrived in Michigan. So, unfortunately, I'm not familiar with families in NJ in the time frame you are researching.
Have you explored the web pages on the Internet? In the past I contacted some of the people who had web sites, and they had information that helped me, even if it was not posted on their site. Sharon