I am researching my mother's family and found Charlotte Dow; b. May 12, 1840 in Lyman, NH. She married Herod Gilman, he was killed in the Civil War, then she married his brother, Ezra. Charlotte and Herod had a daughter, Mary Emma Gilman; b. Feb. 26, 1861; m. Richard Kimball Sherman, May 27, 1880; d. Apr. 21, 1905, possibly in CA.Richard and Mary were also born in Lyman, NH. The second child born to Richard K. and Mary E. was Flora May Sherman, my grandmother.Can anyone help me with the Dow and Gilman families?Lee.