You are referring to Edmond M. Duling. He was born 01 Feb 1862 in Indiana and died Feb 1951 in Eskridge, Wabaunsee County, Kansas. He married Lucy Alice Siddens 23 Dec 1887 in Seward County, Nebraska. His parents were Electius Hayes Duling (19 Dec 1825 - 28 May 1902) and Sabina Kail (04 Aug 1829 - 07 Jun 1914).
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