I'm not sure if this helps - but I'm looking for further information on a Henrietta Eckenrode b. 12/11/1856 in Hardin Co., OH - she md. a Dennis Diehlher parents were Charles Eckenrode and Rebecca Duer who md. November 29,1838 in Trumbull Co., OH.
It sounds like these Eckenrodes' could be related.