Francis Marion (Tobe)Eddings descended from the William and Rebecca Chandler Eddings family of Wilson Co., Tenn. The Eddings Family in Webster Co., Ky. is a different family, descending from John and Lavina Nichols Eddings of Wake Co., N.C. Below is some info on those individuals mentioned in your posting.
W.H. born 1842 was William H. Eddings who married Mary L. Vaughn.
James B. (Brown), born 1840, married Rachel E. Bean (not Carnaham).
John T. born 1866 married Lucy B. Carnaham.
Francis M. Eddings, born 4/1896 was the son of Benjamin Kel and Lucy Lyles Eddings. Francis lived in Greenville, N.C. in 1983. His wife had died inWebster Co.
Regarding Tobe, on 4/27/1887 a Francis M. Eddings filed a pension application in Colorado. Possibly this was your Tobe.
On the 1910 census, Tobe was listed in Los Angeles Co., Cal. He was listed as a widow and an "inmate" in the Pacific Branch of the National Home for Disabled Volunteer Soldiers. He apparently died during the 1910's. Bob