Hi Clay, your step-father was my mother's uncle Chester and she recalls when he married your mother. Her father is your "uncle Benny" from San Diego-Coronado to be exact. She says she can write a letter on your behalf if you want. Yoy can e-mail me at email@example.com. I could not make out your e-mail address and am new to this geneology stuff (i was just surfing the nternet while talking to my Mom and stumbled across it).