Thank you for your reply. Your husband is definitely my mother's first cousin. My grandmother was Agnes Maud Emby Lowther. My mother is Alice Lowther Matravers. I heard many nice stories about Uncle Charlie and his wife (was it Auntie Dorothy?). We're in touch with Ruben's (your husband's uncle) daughter, Anne, in England and your husband's grandfather's family in Derry. What a small world! It is a pleasure to connect with you.