Hello Ian I beleive your Tom to be the son of Charles and Sarah Esam of Three Chimneys Loddington. From the 1881 census Thomas was age 13 his brother George age 12, sister Ada age 10 brother Austin age 8 and Alfred age 6rom the parish registers he had another brother Charles Albert christened at Broughton8.6.1862 and two more sisters Sarah Ellen and Anne Elizabeth christened in Thorpe Malsor. Thomas' father Charles married Sarah Goodman 31.5. 1858 in Thorpe Malsor.I can take this several generations further back and If this line is correct (The evidence adds up) then we are related, distant cousins on the same line. Please contact me directly on my email for further info.