I have no connection to this family or any of these surnames.Saw your query and found this:
Marie M. Lavender, nee Roberts, age 82, passed away on March 8, 2004. Dear mother to Michael, Teresa and Curtis and grandmother to Thomas, Nathan, Kathleen, Colin, Brendan, Rachel, Isaac, Anna and Zoe; beloved sister of Lillian Grocholski; loving mother-in-law to Patricia Lavender, *****KEVIN FAGAN******, Patti Navilio and Elizabeth Lavender. Memorial Service Sunday, March 14, 3 p.m. at Montgomery Place, East Room, 5550 S. South Shore Dr., Chicago, IL 773-753-4100. In lieu of flowers, contributions may be made in Marie's name to the Alzheimer's Association, 225 N. Michigan, 17th Floor, Chicago, IL 60601. Published in the Chicago Tribune from 3/11/2004 - 3/13/2004.
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