I saw your posting on GenForum from back in 2000. Tells you how often I've been checking GenForum. Anyway, I find some interesting coincidences.
When my grandparents came over from Hungary, they first settled in Joliet, IL where my father, John Stephen Faludi was born in 1916. His family moved to Milwaukee before the 1920 census. My grandparent's names were Josef Faludi and Mary (Marya) Kukulevic.
It is interesting that the Joliet and Milwaukee are connected with the name of Stephen. We may not be closely related but I wonder if we didn't know someone in common.