I am new to this forum and see that you live in Toronto. I do too. I was a born a Feeney, to quite a large family of Feeneys in fact.
I have an Uncle John but I don't think he is your father as mine has been divorced and remarried.
But perhaps your family is related to mine ... My Grandfather was Leonard Feeney and my Grandmother was Charlotte Neil. They had thirteen children but only the following survived childhood and/or birth, Eleanor, William (Bill), Alan, John, Gordon (Gord or Bruce, my father), Paul, Philip (Phil), Michael (Mike), Richard, Kimberly (Kim).