I know you posted that a long time ago. But I would like to say my last name is Filback. My cousin actually sent a message back to you. Saying that he was the son of Donald Filback, and I actually am going down there to see him memorial day weekend so we are true blood. Why I say that is because my grandfather on my father's side had a family with my dad's mother, and then with another woman. So your husband is probably the other woman's child. I have never met Jessie (my grandfather)he died before I was born. And he was NEVER a part of my father's life. So truely I know nothing about Jessie.