jim married my mother only for us to find out years later that he was already married when he married my mom so technically he and my mom's marriage wasn't legal. We lived with him for about 7 years. They were horrible years. filled with poverty and abuse. That part of my life continues to haunt me. I felt compelled to tell his other son all that I knew because I would want someone to do it for me if I were looking, but it is a part of my life I want to forget. I don't know if that guy will email you back or not. I sent him all the info I had and that was our last communication.