I currently am researching the Gaddy's of Haywood county. I have about four Robert Lee Gaddys in my listing. Do you have any other details you are willing to share? What was your grandmother's name? Gaddy is also so common! All distant cousins but in Anson and Haywood there are so many and they all used similar names that you might need more info. Maybe your grandfather's brothers/sisters also might help in census work.