You are definitely related to my Gaithers. I have that Alfred C.P. Gaither was a brother to my g-g-g-grandmother, Matilda M. Gaither. She was born May 11, 1818 and died in Itawamba County, Miss. Dec. 26, 1846. She married Doctor Newman/Newnan Cayce Jan. 12, 1837. I would like to know more about the Oklahoma clan.