Hello. I have printed a file from ancestry.com that shows John M. Gary's wife to be Rebecca Sterling. Their children were John Gary, Thomas Gary, Charles Gary,William Bayley Gary, and James Gary....Their son Charles Gary married Patience West....If you have any questions please feel free to email me. I am in contact with a Gary family member who has a copy of the book the Gary family from England to Virginia to South Carolina. He sent me copies of a couple of pages that pertain to my line.