Hello to all those concerned. I am sitting here and in front of me i have a photocopie of my great grandfathers marriage certificate. His name is Matthew Jonathan Gilham and was married tp Alice Maud Milmoth in 1893 in Greenwhich. Alice was born in 1872 also in Greenwich. Her father was Thomas Milmoth and her mother Lucy Ward. Matthew was born in 1868 in west Greenwich. At the time of their marriage he was a "drummer 10th Foot" based in Aldershot. One of their children was Walter Henry Gilham who is my grandfather. He married Elizabeth Avernell. (my grandma. I have all these certificates with me, sent to me by an aunt who has been doing research. Richard, I would like to know if your father is Walter (Wally)Gilham and your mum Gerda. If that is the case, we are cousins. My dad is Tom Gilham and my mum is Shirley. Hope this can be useful to you.