I have tried sending you an email, as we are very closely related. My grandfather was Wesley Maxwell Gillenwater, who I believe was your father's brother!
Riley Wesley Gillenwater is my ggrandfather.
Please send me email at email@example.com if you catch thos post. Any other Gillenwaters are always welcome to email me as well.. There are quite a few that have posted that I have tried to email and the addresses are old.. =)