Well, although my information is a bit different than yours, I'm going to give it to you anyway.Maybe it will help. Now, here may be the problem that you may be having.Irving, MA is close to the Vermont border.It is located in Franklin County, Massachusetts.If your other information is correct, about his marriage to Mary Griffin, I think my information may help.
Benjamin Glazier b. circa 1793 Irving, Franklin Co. MA Rebecca Glazier (sister) b. 1790, Wendell, Franklin Co., MA
Parents Benjamin Glazier (b. 1742) (d. Glastonbury, Bennington, VT and Lydia Cummings (b. C. 1746, Wendell, Franklin Co, MA)They were married July 4, 1782 Wendell, Franklin Co., MA
Benjamin (son) married Mary Griffin Nov 3, 1816
That's what I have.I hope this helps.Please let me know. Gail