I have an Eliza Jane Grammer b. 1834 in Lawrence Co., Ind. that married Abner Beale in Jefferson Co., Iowa in 1851.Hers was a short life.She died in Childbirth 9/23/1853.She had a son William Henry Beale before she lost the second child.This sounds to me like the same family you are referring to.I think she might have a brother Henry and a brother Joseph too. I don't have any real record of her at all but know she is buried at Mt. Moriah Cemetery in Douds, Iowa.