I Can't offer much more to your post. I do have the following in my data base.
John Nelson Haden b. April 30, 1774 in Fluvanna co Va Died October 5, 1822
Son of Joseph and Mary Peatross another spouse of Joseph was: Susannah Woodson Payne b. april 1, 1775 in Goochland co va d.March 18, 1838 her parents were George Payne and Agatha George
Children of John Nelson Haden: 1-George Payne Haden b. 7/9/1793,d. 10/30/1814 2-Joseph Peatross Haden b.1/14/1797.d.12/19/1829 3-William Woodson Haden b. 3/5/1798 4.Ann Maris Haden b. 4/27/1799 d.4/19/1823 m.Thomas Duke 5-JOhn Nelson Haden b. 6/25/1802 d.7/21/1849 6-Mary Jane Haden b. 4/12/1803 7-Samuel Hopkins Haden b. 4/24/1807 ,d.4/1883 8- James Harvey Haden b. /12/1813- m. Emily Pryor 9-Walter Watts Haden b. 12/24/1815 10-Matthew R. Haden b. 11/16/1816- m.Catherine Davis 11-Robert Beverly Haden b.4/25/1805 m. Pamela ann George
Hope this is of some help. No Documentation Just from the internet.
My Pace family in Fluvanna co seems to have possible connections to Hadens, Paynes,George