Found Charles HAESE family on Philadelphia, PA LDS-transcripted 1880 Census:
p 156D [FHL 1255173; NARA T9-1173]
Chas. A. HAESE, Self-M-W-36y (1843/44) Occ:Cloth cutter -bp PRUS [Fa: PRUS; Mo: PRUS] Emma M. HAESE, Wife-F-W-28y (1852/53) -bp BREMEN [Fa: WEST PHALIA; Mo: BREMEN] Francis A. HAESE, Son-M-W-3y (1877)-bp PA [Fa: PRUS; Mo: BREMEN] Ada E. HAESE, Dau-F-W-11m (1879)-bp PA [Fa: PRUS; Mo: BREMEN]
This is the closest "fit" to my HAYES profile that I have found in my 20+ years of searching."Francis" most likely changed his name to "Frank A. HAYES."
LDS IGI Film # 1059327 shows an Oct. 1873 marriage between Carl A. HASSE & Emma Emilie MUTH [my records show HYMAN/HEIMAN] at Andreas Kirche, Berlin Stadt, Brandenburg, PREUSSEN [Prussia].
Wish to correspond with someone who connects to this family.