Found this, which might help you, in my Harber book:
Richard J. & Rhoda DeShazo Harber Richard b:1843 TN, son of Henry & Rebecca Harber--m: Rhoda DeShazoboth are buried in Spring Creek Cemetry near Calico Rock, AR (Izard Co.) Children of Richard & Rhoda Harber James Harber b:ca 1880, AR. m: Nancy O'Neal Thomas William Harber b:10 Nov 1866, Newburg, AR. d:13 Dec 1948, Shawnee, OK m: Cynthia Catherine "Kate" 29 Feb 1888
Children of Thomas William & "Kate" Harber (one of 11 children) he is listed as #2 child Winford Elmer b: 3 July 1892, Pineville, AR, d:28 Dec 1974, Shawnee, OKm: #1-Maud Stroud (Spurr)in 1937 and #2-Lisbeth Cusenberry (Patton) 14 Oct 1965
OBIT from Tulsa Worldundated-1974
The Henry Harber listed earlier was a son of our old Jacob and Catherine Harber.He had a twin brother Jacob.Their older brother, George Adam was my ancestor.If all of this fits I can send the other names and dates.