I am related through Melinda's twin sister Matilda who married Henry Slaght.Did you know that Jarias had 3 wives total? No. 1 was Elizabeth Wickersham who he married in IN.No. 2 was Henry Slaght's mother Julia Ann Baker (Slaght, Harger, Clegg)I would guess this did not work out and they must have gotten divorced because both of them married for a third time.No. 3 was Sarah Sayle who is the one that died in 1880.