Some years ago I posted about this subject and at that time was confused about Silvia.Later I found proof that she married first Elias Harris.After his death [between ]she married John Hargrove and after Hargrove's death [doumented in Davidson County, TN, as between September 21 - December 31, 1798]she married Benjamin Whitehead.
Unfortunately a mistake was made when the information concerning the marriage of Benjamin Whitehead in Davidson County in 1800. The original record is a marriage bond issued to Benjamin to marry "Silvy" Hargrove. When the record was copied into the marriage book [many years after the fact] the clerk read the name as Sally. It is plainly Silvy on the original bond.
A record from Halifax County, deed books identifies Silvia, widow of Elias Harris, as having married second John Hargrove and third Benjamin Whitehead of Montgomery Co., TN.
The Deeds of Halifax County, North Carolina 1796-1802 abstracted by Dr. Stephen E. Bradley, Jr. Deed Book 19 Page 445
Benjamin Whitehead & his wife Silvia (x) to Thomas Turner. 25 Jun 1804. Elias Harriss late of Halifax Co., who was the former husband of sd Silvia, willed to her a life estate to land on Marsh Swamp, joining Isaac Harriss & others, being the land where sd Elias Harriss died. Sd Silvia later married John Hargrove. On 2 Sept 1797, she & sd Hargrove made an agreement with Isaac Harriss & Abner Harriss executors of sd Elias Harriss; now sd land to be sold in conformity with the agreement. This deed to make legal the transfer to sd Thomas Turner. 5 shillings. Wit: BenjaminWilliams, William Killingsworth.
Sd Silvia was a resident of Montgomery Co. Tennessee & her consent was obtained there.