Thanks for your input. This family is driving me up a wall. I was in Portage County several years ago and found the marriage recods for Frances to Nick Wilhelm and Wallace to Anna Teel but somehow I missed the Amanda marriage. I also found that Elmer died in 1873. Daniel Harter's will (died 1878) had me totally confused because the only children he mentioned were Mary Myers, Frances Wilhelm and Wallace Harter, no Amanda or Melissa, but he mentioned an Amanda who was the wife his deceased unnamed son. So who is this deceased son? Elmer was only 19 when he died and I didn't find any record of him being married.