Hi...I don't know if I will be much help but something in your message triggered me. My grandfather's name I believe was Arthur, he died long before I was born.He moved to California with his wife Lydia and their three children, daughter Doris, my father Edward John, and another son Arthur whom they nicknamed Sonny.He was married to a woman named Genii. Arthur Sr.died of a burst appendix.We spell our name Heilman but it may be a variant!!Dad lived in Trenton or thereabouts until they moved to California. I'd be willing to give you more information if this sounds at all familiar.I'd love to hear more about what you have as well. Thanks!! Nicole.