you're good Diane, caddotrees.com is my site, my family. I did all the research for that. Been digging in this tree for years and my uncle before me has been digging for over 50 years. We just can't seem to find firm documentation on the marriages and connections. I do tend to believe the charts and think my gg-grandfather John Frederick somehow got missed by all other Herndon researchers. I'm convinced that John F. and Fleetwood were brothers even though he's not named anywhere other than our records and his Will. His own headstone states born in Fredericksburg VA 1796 so we know he's a VA Herndon and he spoke of his family connection to William Henry Herndon.
The journey continues.... glad to make the connection with you.